Time for an Epiphany?

6 Jan

Noah's Pie

A Pie for Noah on his Birthday

It’s a bit late to say this but, but I want to wish everyone a very Happy New Year!  My hope is that the year to come brings you more joy than sorrow, more prosperity than hardship, and enough love and support to help you grow into your best self.

On a very sad note, this week my cousin Wayne lost his battle with cancer. Wayne was funny, smart, and big-hearted and he’s left us way too soon. My heartfelt sympathy goes to his family, friends, and loved ones.

wayne

Among the many other thoughts crowding my head these past few weeks has been the issue of homelessness. Each week, our church opens on Monday to offer shelter to those without homes.  We are fortunate that there are many wonderful volunteers who serve as hosts on these nights.  For my part, I try to make sure that there is a warm pot of soup available for those weary souls.

Sue J's pie 1

Over the time that I’ve helped with this mission, I have become familiar with some of our guests and will check in with them if I see them around town. Occasionally, I will buy them coffee or offer a peanut butter sandwich, but I know that even stopping to say hello is important. It demonstrates that these people exist… they are not invisible.

A few nights ago, I watched a film called, “Time out of Mind.” In this movie, Richard Gere plays a homeless man in New York City.  You don’t know much about what went wrong for his character, but you get a glimpse into how hard it is to be homeless.  In one interview, Gere shared that for a scene in the movie he stood on a street corner in Manhattan for 90 minutes begging for change. In that time he received about $1.50 but he said that not one person who gave him money looked him in the eye and no one recognized him at all.

sues pie prep 2

Recently, on a bitter cold day, I bought a coffee a local Dutch Bros kiosk. As I was waiting for it to be made, I noticed a homeless person across the parking lot and decided to give it to them. However, by the time I turned my car around, he was gone. Determined to find someone to share this treat with, I headed home scouting for someone in need.

When I passed through our downtown, I saw a man with a backpack walking his dog. I wanted to stop but all of a sudden was overcome with this thought “How presumptuous of me to think that he was homeless!”  This made me pass him by, but as I’d not seen anyone else around, I gathered my courage and drove back to him.

pie tilted

He was a man of about 50 and he walked with a slight limp.With my window rolled down, I asked, “Sir, would you like a latte?” The man stopped and looked at me for a moment before he spoke and then he said, “Yes, thank you, Maam.”  I handed it to him and said, “He’s a cute dog.” He said it was a “she” and that’s when he seemed to straighten up and grow taller. Then he stated his full name, and these last words, “US Navy Seal.” I thanked him for his service, and if you know me at all, you know I drove home crying.

According to many traditions, today is celebrated as the day the Three Kings visited the Christ Child”; it’s known as the epiphany.” This word is also used to describe “a moment in which you suddenly see or understand something in a new or very clear way.” My wish is, if  nothing else, that the next time you see someone on the street, that you not turn away, for there, but for the grace of God, go you or I.

upside down

A quiche for Sue and her new knee

Do not judge by appearances; a rich heart may be under a poor coat.       Scottish Proverb

I always wondered why somebody didn’t do something about that. Then I realized, I am somebody.  Unknown

The idea that anyone who has worn our country’s uniform spends their nights sleeping on the ground should horrify us.  Michelle Obama

 

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8 Responses to “Time for an Epiphany?”

  1. Rebecca January 6, 2016 at 1:54 PM #

    Bless you for this reminder. Most of us have an embarrassment of riches. I am challenged to overcome my fears and give thoughtfully.

    Thank you!

    Rebecca B. Smith

    295 Island Pointe Drive

    Medford, OR 97504

    541.776.0730

    “If you have knowledge, let others light their candles in it.” ~ Margaret Fuller

    • pieadaygiveaway January 6, 2016 at 2:31 PM #

      Thank you for your comment Rebecca! I find that once I get over my fear of reaching out, I begin to get a glimpse of what the world can be like. It’s amazing.

  2. Ellen W Grush January 6, 2016 at 2:35 PM #

    Wonderful post! Thanks so much Karen. Ellen

    Sent from my iPhone

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  3. Donna Wright January 6, 2016 at 8:43 PM #

    Thank you Karen for sharing this. Love you and your acts of kindness.

  4. Debbie January 7, 2016 at 7:33 PM #

    Oh Karen, so sorry to hear you lost your cousin, Wayne. I know you thought of him often. I had not heard of Richard Gere’s movie “Time out of Mind.” Sounds like a good one to check out. Thanks for your lovely post!

  5. Mary January 8, 2016 at 8:37 AM #

    I finally read this entry and as always am touched by your goodness and awareness of the real world. I am fortunate to know you, and the community is surely blessed to have you here. Your awareness opens my eyes and I become a better person as well. Love to you and Happy New Year

    • pieadaygiveaway January 8, 2016 at 9:40 AM #

      Dear Mary, Thank you so much. You are already a good person! Practically sprouting wings!
      xxoo

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